Yup, I know, everybody knows it. It is the simplest thing in the whole broad universe to know but the question is, Do we realize it? or Is it so simple to understand as it is to say?
Let's find out.
I heard people saying that the pain that a mother goes through is somewhere equal to be bit by 1000 scorpions at once. Well, that sounds immensely terrifying yet that is something I cannot feel or I never can go through probably because, forget about 1000, if only 20 scorpions bite me altogether or even a few lesser, Death is definite.
So let's move forward to a point, from where we can be in a position where we can realize the scenario more or less.
- Do we remember the days back then in childhood, when we would to fall ill. Who was the person who used to sit by your side the whole night?
- We all have that one person who saved us always from the thrashing of our father. Do you know the person?
- That one person who would understand each and every feelings, emotions, mental state and basically everything without even saying a word. Who is it?
- The person who knows everything about you, no matter how hard you try to hide something (based on personal experience). Who is that?
Now a giant of a question arrives. What do we payback for this, or can we even payback? The answer is no. My mother used to tell me a story where a man made a temple and said to his mother that he had made this temple in return to the services of her mother and the debt was cleared. As soon as he said this, the temple self-demolished.
Moral of the story is that there is one debt in everyone's life that can not be paid back in entire life.
Actually, there is a world of things to say about her and is a never ending process and if one give some seconds and think about it, he can realize it easily. So let's talk about the second part which is more important.
I have heard many parents saying that their kids would not take care of them and this is the word of 5 out of 10 parents. I mean what has made them say this? Isn't it so shameful for sons and daughters to hear that their parents are saying this? Yes. Of course.
Now the question is, are they wrong? Unfortunately, No is the answer in many cases. I don't have the exact research about it but generally its true.
As we grow up to our teenage, many characteristic changes in our behavior such as increased anger, feeling of that extra self -respect, superiority and pseudo maturity. This is the time when they think that they have already known everything regarding this whole broad universe and they know even more than their parents and bloody Einstein knew nothing. This is the time when they start arguing, shouting and similar stuff on their parents and mother is the prime victim of their attitude because that threat of thrashing down by the father is always there.
In many cases parents also back off and bear this because of the fact that this is the stage when the ocean of emotions runs from top to bottom and everyone knows the most cases of suicidal attempt are made in this phase only.
Gradually this attitude settles down in the behavior of the children forever and a time comes when the care and concern from your parents, specially from mother becomes irritable.
This is so wrong.. This is all because of the fact that we don't think much for our parents. Now, don't get me wrong, this is not true for all the cases but there are noticeable amount of cases.
Now what's our responsibility? Posting a picture with our father and mother on every Father's and Mother's day and writing nice captions? Or to try to bring smiles on those faces?
I leave it to you to decide..
oh. by the way.....
Happy Mother's Day to all the lovely Mothers..
Love and peace............
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